Transforming Shame into Self-Love
Bradford White Bradford White

Transforming Shame into Self-Love

Transforming shame into self-love resembles an alchemical journey within the depths of your psyche—a concept Carl Jung explored throughout his life's work. At the heart of alchemy lies the 'prima materia,' the raw, unrefined substance that alchemists believed contained the potential for gold. In your inner landscape, this represents your deepest feelings of shame—the heavy lead you carry within. This shame, painful as it may be, is your starting point—the necessary material without which transformation cannot begin. When you acknowledge your shame rather than hide from it, you've already taken the first courageous step on this path.

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Attachment Theory and the Drama Triangle via Justin Bieber's "Stay" - #DHMH

Attachment Theory and the Drama Triangle via Justin Bieber's "Stay" - #DHMH

The song "Stay" by Justin Bieber and The Kid LAROI is a catchy tune that garnered numerous awards. Beyond its catchy tunes, it deeply reflects the principles of Attachment Theory and the Drama Triangle. It navigates themes such as insecure attachment, repetitive maladaptive behavior, and desperation for a lover's presence. The lyrics hint at the struggles of a singer with trust issues, pleading his lover to stay despite his damaging behaviors.

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